there is always a purpose i want to convey to people out there when i go researching about infos like motivation, goal quotes, about one's self and many others if you guys have read them before. (it's not tt im so free or perhaps im really tt...lol...yala) it is because there may have been something happened to me or which i noticed/observed or loathed it or whatever, that's why i started searching more info about that particular subject; for i cant write them all out by myself in my own opinion or what i think, aint wanna make it so obvious and direct or whatever. for i know smart people like you can understand the context and their meaning (i not saying myself but for those we read them)(the subject is quite or mostly general so it does not show biasness), and perhaps they can gain more knowledge or reflect upon themselves from it.

for example, my previous post was about the goal quotes and the EQ. i purposely go and look up for the EQ cos it's about how one behaves. actually what's EQ all about? izzit about like when u watch a very touchin show u will cry like hell...for this, i also dunno (lame) but.......it describes
an ability, capacity, or skill to perceive, assess, and manage the emotions of one's self, of others, and of groups. (as from my previous post..and i know it's repetition so get bored now)

does tt supposedly mean the skills u shld hav when u are talkin to people? like u shld know when and not to talk, know what u're talkin!, dont be so direct as to u will hurt or embarrass others (especially if the person u're confrontin to think he got no face already when u said tt to him, means u're in deep shit...nv think of what tt person will feel when u say tt) perhaps use a more indirect way...(i dunno how you gotcha do tt) or just simply shutup, keep the comments to urself, dont always just blurt out everythin u think or see (know when to keep to urself, but one disadvantage, u will keepin thinkin abt tt if u are tryin to put urself in tt person's shoe and understand what's tt fella thinkin) good, can set ur brain thinkin & become smarter but ltr think until ur white hairs come out (lame). so tt's tt.

okay, maybe sometimes i do that too without noticing.

- Self-Management: Using awareness of emotions to manage response to different situations and people.
- Social Awareness: Understanding the perspectives of other people including their motivations, their emotions, and the meaning of what they do and say.

about the goal quotes...i believe every people have their own dreams and goals, or at least most ppl have. if those who dont have, tt means u're just simply carryin on ur life cos tt's life, you have to live on. but with goals, at least you can work hard and get motivated to do what you want or like. some stress to push u forward so tt u will get a different kind of feelin rather than always be happy go lucky. so, it really doesnt matter what you dream, anyhow dream also can like i want to take photo with xiaozhu! dreamin only but at least it makes you feel happy right. though it's so like...99.9999% impossible for me. and people have differnt goals...goals in achievin excellent academic results, goals in earning ur first $1million at the age of 20 and forth. there are so many others...

and i thought, i thought, aiming high may and may not mean u are ambitious, it simply means what u want to achieve. SO WHAT if we cant achieve it, at least we did try our very best in workin towards our goal. even if we fall, we may just fall that little bit but the end result is still good. what's about tt?

As the quotes go,
" The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it. "
" Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you'll land among the stars. "
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DONT doubt others' ability; for people will doubt yours too. dont laugh at people's goals also...believe they can do it and for your own goals, people also believe you can do it. aint tt great.
"Judge not, that you be not judged. For with what judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you."

- If you put another person on the defensive, you will NOT succeed in convincing them of anything!
- If you are belittle the opinions of others, argumentative and always sure of your own viewpoint, the other person will feel hostile toward you.
- If you are friendly, appeal to others' desire for fairness and excellence, request advice where appropriate, acknowledge effort, and sympathize with his real issues, you will have better chance of changing his thinking

I aint being sanctimonious.
sry to those who think so.