one must walk in another man's shoes to understand him- haitian proverb
hey guys, I've decided to re-post some entries which I think your may have forgotten, so perhaps it may be a good thing if you can read it again...of course it's NOT about my life but some info I've searched last time and i think it's pretty good. =) have a nice time reading if you have damn lot of time and think about it...
Judgmental.
Sanctimonious people are very judgmental. They will point out the faults of others, ignoring their own. "Hypocrite! First remove the plank from your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye."
Many times the things we see in others as wrong are the very things that we do ourselves but justify.
"Judge not, that you be not judged. For with what judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you."
Prideful.
A person who is sanctimonious is said to be "disapproving." When we disapprove of someone's actions, it's usually because we have our own idea of what they should be doing. (Judging them) Pride says that I'm wrong, you're wrong. Sanctimony involves an idea that you're morally superior to someone else. That's pride in a nutshell.
"Pride comes before a fall."
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Hydrogen and oxygen are distinctly different elements, but sometimes they combine to form water. Something similar is true for motivation and talent.
Motivation is what we LIKE to do naturally. Talent is what we DO well naturally. They can exist independently, but when they combine, they create something special. They create motivated talents.
People often are naturally good at something (talented), but it just doesn't turn them on. For example, Heather is good with numbers, but she doesn't go out of her way to find tasks calling for that talent. Most people have such talents. But then there are those talents that we really enjoy using. These are the motivated talents, and this is where the magic is.
We use motivated talents every chance we get. Most of the time we don't even think about it. For example, Larry has a motivated talent for conversation, and he naturally engages both friends and strangers in dialog. He doesn't consciously determine to do so; it just happens. It's natural and unforced. He enjoys it, and he's good at it.?That's the hallmark of a motivated talent.
Motivated talents tend to be irrepressible. They find expression. In fact, if you're ever tried to stifle a motivated talent (either yours or someone else's) it probably felt like you were trying to hold two dozen ping pong balls under water at the same time. Motivated talents pop out, even if no one else is asking for them. And doesn't that make sense? After all, it's what we do well AND enjoy.
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